Your Questions, Answered

  • From Enquiry to “I Do” 💕

    How Pinky Promise Ceremonies Works

    1. You Say Hello

    You pop an enquiry through the website (or slide into my inbox) and tell me a bit about you, your plans, and the kind of ceremony you’re dreaming of. No pressure, no hard sell — just a hello.

    2. I Get Back to You

    I’ll reply as soon as possible to let you know if I’m available for your date and answer any initial questions. If it feels like a good fit, we’ll book in a chat.

    3. We Have a Proper Chat

    This is where the magic starts ✨
    We’ll meet (in person or on Zoom) for a relaxed, friendly chat about:

    • Your story

    • Your vibe

    • What you don’t want as much as what you do
      Think coffee, laughs, and zero awkwardness.

    4. You Book Me In

    If you’re feeling the love, you secure your date with a booking fee and signed agreement. From that moment on, I’m officially your celebrant — pinky promise made 🤞

    5. I Start Writing Your Ceremony

    I create a completely bespoke ceremony script, written just for you.
    No templates. No copy-and-paste. Just your words, your story, your promise.

    6. We Fine-Tune It Together

    You’ll get to review the ceremony and tweak anything you like. Want more humour? Less mush? A surprise moment? We’ll shape it until it feels so you.

    7. Final Details & Calm Vibes

    As the day gets closer, I’ll check in, confirm timings, and make sure everything feels calm, organised, and under control — so you don’t have to worry about a thing.

    8. Ceremony Day 💖

    I arrive early, keep things flowing, set the tone, and deliver your ceremony with warmth, confidence, and heart.
    You just show up, be present, and promise your promises.

    9. You Go Off & Celebrate

    You’re married (or renewed, or committed, or wildly in love) — and off you go to celebrate, cry, laugh, dance, or drink tequila…x

  • An independent wedding celebrant is someone who creates and delivers fully personalised wedding ceremonies — written completely from scratch and centred around you.

    Unlike set scripts or rigid formats, I work with you to tell your love story your way, using your words, your vibe, and your values. Romantic, funny, relaxed, meaningful, modern — whatever feels right for you.

    In short: no templates, no rules, no awkward bits. Just you two and your promise.

  • Because your ceremony shouldn’t feel like a tick-box exercise. It should feel like the heart of your day.

    Choosing a celebrant means:

    • Your ceremony is totally personal

    • You can include your story, your humour, your people

    • You’re free to choose any location, any style

    • Your vows can be emotional, funny, unconventional — or all three

    • No time pressure, no restrictions, no stuffy formalities

    It’s your moment. A celebrant lets you make it meaningful, memorable, and unmistakably yours.

  • Great question — and one that confuses a lot of couples.

    A registrar:

    • Follows a set legal script

    • Has limited flexibility

    • Focuses on the legal formalities

    • Usually leads a short, standardised ceremony

    A celebrant:

    • Writes a bespoke ceremony just for you

    • Tells your story in a way that feels natural and heartfelt

    • Allows total freedom with wording, structure, and tone

    • Can include readings, rituals, humour, personal touches

    • Focuses on connection and experience, not paperwork

    Many couples choose to do the legal bit separately, then have a celebrant-led ceremony that actually feels like their wedding.

  • In England and Wales, celebrant-led ceremonies are not legally binding on their own.

    Most couples simply:

    • Do the legal paperwork separately (quick and simple)

    • Then enjoy a celebrant ceremony that’s completely personal and meaningful

    Honestly? Many couples say their celebrant ceremony is the one that truly feels like their wedding day.

  • Couples who:

    • Want something modern, relaxed, and fun

    • Don’t want stiff traditions unless they choose them

    • Love laughter, emotion, and authenticity

    • Want guests saying “That ceremony was SO them”

    Big weddings, small weddings, elopements, festival vibes, unconventional love stories — all welcome 💕

  • I bring:

    • A fun, modern, no-rules approach

    • Professional training in wedding celebrancy

    • A background in wedding planning (so everything flows beautifully)

    • Calm energy, great organisation, and a lot of heart

    • Ceremonies that feel effortless, personal, and unforgettable